- How do you love someone? 1. Be a good companion
2. Unconditioned Love
When you love someone, never expect anything in return. That is, you shouldn't expect even love in return. Remember, one can truly love another person just because he/she wants to and not because he/she has to.
3. Know your partner's favorite "Love Language"
Do they know you love them when you speak words of love? Or maybe they feel loved by your acts of service? Some people feel loved by receiving little gifts while others might like loving touches (a good night/morning kiss before sleep and upon awaken). Real love is not based on your preference but your partner's.
4. Support
Be supportive and assist to complete her important goals.
5. Do not compare
Do not compare her unfavorably with others. Instead brag about her to others, both in front of her and when she is not with you.
6. Admit and apologize if you are in the wrong
You're not too macho to say, "I'm sorry" if you are really in the wrong. In fact you'll be a much bigger man if you do apologize.
7. Appreciation
Appreciate the love you and your loved one share. Never take your love for granted. Every day you should be thankful that you are getting the chance to be with such an amazing and wonderful person, and make sure that they have plenty of reasons to be thankful that they are with you too. A relationship that is truly based on love can be hard to find, and you should always be grateful that the two of you have been brought together, and that you are both able to bring joy to each other's lives.
8. Lies Hurt
Don't ever lie to the one you love, tell the truth. Remember when you tell one lie, you have to use many more to cover it, once it is disclosed, things will get complicated.
There is not one specific way to “show” or “prove” your love for someone. Some people like actions better then just words , for example if your partner says that he or she is tired , make sure the house is quiet so he or she can sleep peacefully. If doing that , they may find that as their proof for love. But now , how do you know if you are in love? People mistake the wrong things for being in love , and they end up getting hurt by that person , then for the rest of the time they are scared from that experience and scared to go out and try again. Everyone always thinks that what can go wrong will go wrong , but if you keep that attitude you are doing nothing but keeping that mind set. You can make happen what you want to , so keep a positive attitude.
After all the dating and relationships , you start to feel like its time to find the right one. So lets say you start to date , and you have been seeing this certain person for awhile now. Your mind starts to wonder , thinking things such as “Am I in love”? well some things that could possibly help you figure that out are the following…
- You want to spend all your time with this person.
- You talk to and text this person many times during the course of a day.
- You get nervous and anxious when you meet this person.
- You feel a strong need to dress up nicely and groom yourself better when you meet this person.
- You take a keen interest in this person's family members and childhood stories.
- You feel like buying this person gifts from time to time.
- You remember small details about this person that no one else does.
- You are sexually attracted to this person.
- You derive comfort and support from being around this person and feel that he/she can help you overcome your problems.
- You wish to share your achievements and happiness with this person.
- You feel totally relaxed and composed with this person, and also feel that you can be yourself completely.
- You completely trust this person, and do not feel that he/she will betray you.
- You feel a little jealous when you feel this person is giving someone else more importance than you.
- You are willing to give up certain things you love or enjoy doing, in order to please this person.
- You look forward to talking to or meeting this person after a long hard day.
- You know that this person will be there for you when you are in urgent need of something.
- You do not mind public displays of affection with this person.
- You do not mind sharing intimate details and secrets about your life with this person.
- You are not afraid of committing yourself to this person, and you also think about being with them in the future.
- Lastly, when this person tells you that he/she loves you, you have a strong urge to say it back as well, without feeling awkward about it.
So do not be scared to go out and try new things , take a chance and take this list , date and figure out how to love , and then think am I in love…
to be real i don't need no steps to tell me how to love someone. I feel if you in love with someone you don't need no rules or anything to tell you how to love. I mean if you think about it if you need to read to tell you how to love then you not in love in my book. When you in love you just know so that is why i don't agree with this post.
ReplyDeleteI understand where you are coming from , but some people that deal with the unsure feelings between love and lust might need help figuring out which in what they are really - in love or in lust...also this blog is not to try to tell you whether you are in love or not , but to in a way help those whom are having a hard time getting back out there , and help give them the idea of what possible love signs are. Other then that , i would have to agree with you ; i and most people do not want a post or bullets teling them how they are feeling , but its more then that ; love is very complex and thats why it is researched alot , but thanks for shareing your opinion.
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