Love over the internet , could you really find a connection that deeply with someone you have never met in person? Dating websites such as Match.com , Zoosk , and eHarmony are all dating websites , that promise a connection between two people that have never met before and that are both searching for the same thing LOVE . Men and women are both star struck by the idea of falling in love and having that fairy tail ending we all see when we are little.
When people start “talking” to each other like that its most likely because they are physically attracted to that person , and or sexually attracted to that person without even knowing who , how , or what about them. From my point of view dating websites are slim to none when it comes down to falling in love , but creating some sort of relationship such as friendship , that could work and even possibly be the beginning to something more then just friends , because you are slowly but surely taking the time to get to know this person from the inside out instead of the outside in.
I have never internet dated , but I know people that have and they debate all the time whether to just give up or to keep trying because after years of doing internet dating they still have not found what they are looking for , but why could that be ; not because they are not special enough but maybe because when you internet date you can put in a “requirement” of the type of person you are looking for in both looks and personality. There is no such thing as your perfect dream person , and when you try to paint a picture of what you want , you will shut down anything that is not just that , which can hurt you in the end because of being to selfish.
Knowing what you want and finding the way to get it is always a challenge , and that is internet dating ; a challenge. I like the saying , “ love will find you , when you least expect it” and that is soooo true. So tell me , do you agree with internet dating , why or why not?
i would never internet date. I think people that internet date are sad. People need to just get a life an go look for love instead of sitting on your butt.That is how i feel about this post.
ReplyDeleteI would never internet date either , but i think that people that do ; do not do it because they are lazy but ,maybe because they do not have enough confidence or maybe it is just because they do not have the time.
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